Today we discuss some of the most fascinating psychological facts about attraction in the world. What are the signs that someone likes you? How do smiling and stubble affect a man’s good looks?
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Fascination Facts About the Psychology of Attraction
What Makes Someone Physically Attrcated to You
Beautiful Facts About Human Attraction
Central Elements of Romantic Attraction
The Forces of Attraction
Who Do You Find Attractive? It All Depends on This.
Vocal and Physiological Changes in Response to the Physical Attractiveness of Partners
Music enhances Feelings of Attraction
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Effects of Background Music on Japanese Adult’s Impressions
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Your info referencing the color red is spot on! I had this red suit and EVERYTIME I wore that suit to a job interview…I got hired for the job. Thanks for the other 14 attraction pointers! 👍
It does not work everytime. There were times were the interviewer felt you want to outshine them.
Beauty lies in the eye of beholder which is absolutely true I think. What’s attractive to someone is not to someone else!!
It’s funny how they’re still pushing multiculturalism, multiculturalism has basically destroyed America. it’s an illusion that for the most part does not work. Just like the Civil Rights Movement. It was also it was also an illusion which has destroyed the African American family for the most part…
But there is a general baseline of what people think is beautiful.. You take 100,000 men of all races, and ages. And you ask them is Lizzo better looking than Beyonce.. 99,998 will pick Beyonce..
@WavyLife-415🌊 true lol of all the language u decided to speak facts
I like thus
Good advise
Different faces being attractive is not evidence of non physical traits being the determinant. It’s that those faces satisfy the criteria for attractive faces. Symmetry, pronounced features, lack of blemishes and signs of youth can be displayed in multiple ways.
Why did I find my wife attractive when I first saw her and she had a port stain birth mark over her eye ?
@Cam montreuil Cause she has multiple features to assess
@Cam montreuil beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Rethinking I should not have commented to abstract nomenclature.
@Cam montreuil I understand.my mate is blind in one eye and that eye is noticeablñy larger than the other, the asymmetry made me linger on his face longer than usual for.me so.likely he took that as an indication of interest on my part and it was true.l am a hobby artist so pay even MORE attention to visual cues than others do..i really gaze at people.and objects that grab,my attention. judt.part.of.mynartitistcimoriemtatiom.
Beauty not lies in the external looks and attire. It’s completely depends on the character and mindset
Strictly personal opinion
It should depend on those traits however in this world we live in, too many people look at the cover and don’t always delve into the character.
The part where women like men who don’t smile as much is false in my opinion. I think guys that smile are 10000% more attractive than guys that don’t.
Totally agree.
I agree as well!
For men, smiling with the eyes in stead of teeth is good if you ‘re alone. When a man has company from someone they already know they should smile once in a while (when a funny moment occurs or someone did something nice) but not all the time
Agreed! Nothing makes me melt more than when my bf smiles with his teeth 🤤
It is not what a person looks like on the outside but what is on the inside that counts to me
Chemistry is most important for a long term relationship. Don’t force it, let it happen naturally because if it doesn’t, it’s not meant to be and won’t last.
And your chemistry can change over time because people get new friends, jobs, or hobbies that will pull at their personality
It’s not important to YOU.
It IS important to others.
absolutely agree
What he says about being in a relationship and being attracted to others is very true. I thought I was bad for feeling this way and turns out other guys feel the same.
No you should feel bad
I’m a woman and I expect to be attracted to all sorts of people. It’s healthy. I was looking at a young boy in high school the other day lol and I’m in my 30s
@skyejacques Haha, seems about right. I get hit on by women in their late 20’s and early 30’s at my workplace, meanwhile I’m sitting in the shallow twenties ✌
It’s a human thing , u can’t silence the mind ..but you can be responsible and to not go so far with your own ideas and desires..see the difference? The second one makes a guy a bad person even if it’s just thoughts.
Shame on you.
Leave children alone.
The problem relies on sight. And horrors that come from it. What people see can turn people into “psychopaths”.
Another situation on attraction is asking blind people who they like based on those who are sighted. It becomes biased on what and who are presented to them and what one experiences and sees during the time of maturing.
Pedophiles work on what they have seen online. How does one become one? Would a pedophile ever be a pedophile growing up in a secluded room with only adults? Isn’t the answer no?
I have noticed there are people who will even promote things between each other. Like older men who will attempt to introduce their friends to younger people. These sort of odd behaviours are quite interesting especially if they don’t realize the person is not attracted to older people who far above their age.
What happens with Jeffrey Epstein isn’t an isolated case but there are others that work similarly. That is the scary part.
I’ve had a chance to talk to a psychologist on Voicely. She told me some of these facts and it really blowed my mind. Great video!
‘It’s beauty which captures one’s attention, personality which captures one’s heart.’ Oscar Wilde
100%
I agree! My BF is absolutely more attractive to other women now that we are dating. He said when he was single and unattached, women did not approach him. I’m considered attractive and nothing is more appealing than a man with a beautiful woman😉
😂😂😂 TRUE!!!!!! Additionally, I “revamped” his whole look and style, so that now people don’t even recognize him anymore xD
#7 Bold Communication. He got me. He said what he meant and meant what he said. I’ll never forget our first encounter. There’s no one like him. Rest in Paradise.
Yes communication is an important one, if they can’ t communicate with me it won’ t work.
Damn rest easy
sorry for your loss, much love to you <3
@Sondos Zahra thank you🙏🏾
Had someone special like that too, he passed away. May yours and mines rest in heaven😢😇
As I get older, my attraction has shifted from prioritizing physical looks to prioritizing mental stimulation
yes and the experience the other partner can bring to the table
Are you a guy or girl? Men usually never shift from physical!
@S man and this applies to me as well
How cliche can you get
@S cap
Haha, love it: 2:20
“Rapport is a complicated social relationship built upon deeper knowledge and mutual understandings”…
Fun fact for non-french speakers: “rapport” is simply the french word for “relation”.
Personal comment: I love how there is this part of american culture that is so obsessed with
(i) these top 10 lists
(ii) the idea that to be smart and successful you just need to learn some secret “techniques”
(iii) how you aparently need to invent new facy marketing buzzwords like “rapport” to make your thoughts sound very sophisticated and scientific.
Love you guys 😘
I liked the video….but do not agree with some points…in my particular case….but I’m sure others will agree.
1. when I was single I always had specific and high standards for what I found attractive in the opposite sex….but I became more accepting of different attractiveness (wider range) after I entered my long-term relationship. this is opposite to the video……you could say that I decided to settle for his looks (that was not quite my type) because his personality was better than those that had the looks of my exes but not the other qualities that matter in longterm relationships…..and now I am extremely attracted to him….i know that there are other people with similar experiences.
2. facial hair on men, does not make someone look attractive or not, it is the overall look….some facial structures and features along with colouration look better with facial hair and some don’t…….even those that do look better with facial hair, it’s not any facial hair style that looks good on them. different lengths and shapes of facial hair suit different faces……i would never be able to say that I like facial hair on men generally speaking……I LOVE facial hair, on the faces that look good with facial hair, as long that the style and length suit that face.
3. I believe that the words beauty and attractiveness have a lot in common and can be used interchangeably but in some cases, they are very different. I believe that in a number of areas of the video the word attractiveness was used interchangeably with the word/meaning beauty, but not at the part of the video when it was said that to be attractive one doesn’t need to have certain features and that what makes someone attractive, is self-grooming and health that stand for attractivness….NO, not really. The word “attractiveness” in this part represents “good image”, which is also attractive. The thing is that different “things” can be attractive: natural beauty (doesn’t matter if overweight or underweight, well-groomed or not, good sense of style or good taste) genetic features that make one attractive, and good image (taking cake of appearances/image with grooming exercise and finding a style that suits your body and face type). The naturally beautiful individual who takes care of their appearance will be WAY MORE attractive than an average individual that takes care of their appearance (in comparison, the latter might even be considered unattractive).
What makes someone beautiful is the relation and balance of all their features…not a specific feature. Maybe not all scientists but only the ones who’s research was used in the making of this video, have a weak grasp on “beauty”….their conclusion in the video was that if all attractive people do not share a feature therefore facial features do not make someone beautiful…..WRONG.
I’ll give an analogy, a room is made up of flooring, ceiling, walls, windows, doors, trim/mouldings, furniture and accessories. A room isn’t beautiful if it has a “specific feature” such as a specific window or floor…….what makes a room beautiful is the balance and how all these features work together. So, yes, a face, isn’t beautiful just because it has a specific chin or nose, but it is beautiful due to the balance (face symmetry) and how all the features look in relation to each other….. Yes, it’s all about the structure and features of the face…..as a whole….t’s art.
I love the message this video gives. So helpful
The face similarity in couple is so true!! I just recently realized how similar me and my ex boyfriend look. My google photos would even confuse our photos up with one another! What a trip😅
Personality is the most attractive and being on the same vibe. Also being at the same maturity level.
As I get older, I’ve started to become more attracted to body language than just looks and muscles. I like some specific gestures and mannerisms